From Drowning in Dead-End Dates to
Married in 6 Months
How I Broke the Algorithm
The wildly controversial method that weeds out the emotionally unavailable, the “not ready” crowd, and the walking red flags before they waste another one of your Saturday nights.
Here's what you'll get...
Stop Sending That eBook - The Dating Survival Guide That Replaces Your Group Chat, Your Therapist, and That One Friend Who Always Gives Great Advice But Never Takes It
43 Copy & Paste Messages for when you have no idea what to say (and can’t be bothered to figure it out)
The Sassy First-Date Questions that sort the grown men from the guys who think therapy is "a bit much"
73 Red Flags to Watch For so you don’t accidentally date another walking emotional train wreck
The Profile Glow-Up Formula That Makes the Right People Swipe (And the Wrong Ones Self-Destruct)
The 100% No-BS 30-Day Money Back Guarantee
From Drowning in
Dead-End Dates to
Married in 6 Months
How I Broke the Algorithm
The wildly controversial method that weeds out the emotionally unavailable, the “not ready” crowd, and the walking red flags before they waste another one of your Saturday nights.
Here's what you'll get...
Stop Sending That eBook - The Dating Survival Guide That Replaces Your Group Chat, Your Therapist, and That One Friend Who Always Gives Great Advice But Never Takes It
43 Copy & Paste Messages for when you have no idea what to say (and can’t be bothered to figure it out)
The Sassy First-Date Questions that sort the grown men from the guys who think therapy is "a bit much"
73 Red Flags to Watch For so you don’t accidentally date another walking emotional train wreck
The Profile Glow-Up Formula That Makes the Right People Swipe (And the Wrong Ones Self-Destruct)
The 100% No-BS 30-Day Money Back Guarantee
Don’t Just Take Our Word For It - Take Theirs
“Tinder felt like I’d been dropped into a frat party in hell. This book? It’s the cool, older sister I never had, one who tells it like it is and doesn’t let you text back ‘hey’ at 2am. I deleted three apps, rewrote my profile, and now I’m actually getting messages from real adults with jobs and punctuation. It’s witchcraft.”
Best $47 I've ever spent. Dating felt like a circus, same clowns, different apps. Every other guide told me to play games or act like I’m auditioning for a rom-com. This book actually gets it. I wanted clarity, confidence, and someone who doesn’t flinch when I speak my mind. Found him. Still laughing.
“Used to think dating apps were just digital graveyards of failed potential. This book didn’t just change my mindset, it changed my entire approach. I used one line from chapter four and a guy actually apologized for being vague. A real apology! I nearly fainted.”
“I thought online dating wasn’t for 'people like me.’ Turns out, it just wasn’t for people without this book. I’ve since had a few coffee dates, all delightful, and none involved anyone trying to ‘fix’ me or send shirtless bathroom selfies. Honestly, that alone was worth the price.”
“Used the book. Stopped settling. Found someone who actually shows up, texts back, and doesn’t think vulnerability is a trap. Wild concept, right? We laugh constantly and I don’t feel like I’m babysitting a man child. 10/10, would recommend.
“I applied what I learned, stopped auditioning for mediocre men, and met someone who treats me like I’m the main character because I am. The bar is no longer in hell. It’s in my living room. And he brought wine.”
“Online dating used to drain the life out of me. The book made me realize I wasn’t ‘picky,’ I was just tolerating nonsense because I didn’t want to be alone. My first message after applying what I learned led to an actual date where no one mentioned their ex or cryptocurrency. Miracles do happen."
“Men used to make me question everything, my tone, my texts, my sanity. This book helped me cut through the BS like a hot knife through a Tinder bio. Found a man who is emotionally fluent, laughs at my jokes, and doesn’t flinch when I say what I want. Honestly, I feel like I hacked the system.”
“After reading this book, I left a situationship so stale it had dust. That man couldn’t identify his own feelings with Google Maps and a team of therapists. Now I’m dating younger, hotter, and happier, with zero tolerance for walking red flags and men who call me ‘intense.’ I am intense. And I’m spectacular.”
Let Me guess...
You’ve Built an Incredible Life, But Your Dating Life is a Disaster Zone
You've got your career sorted, a savings account that doesn't make you wince, friends who actually return your calls, and you can navigate a wine list without panicking.
But dating? Dating feels like trying to assemble IKEA furniture after three glasses of wine while someone keeps hiding the instructions and adding extra screws just to mess with you.
Does this sound familiar?
You're drowning in "hey" texts and ghosting—while your coupled-up friends ask "why are you still single?"
You've tried "just be yourself" and it got you exactly nowhere
You've wasted more Saturday nights on mediocre men than you care to count
You secretly fear you're "too intimidating" or "too successful"
You’ve had enough of digital appendages showing up in your inbox at the grocery store
You secretly blame yourself and spend hours wondering ‘What’s wrong with me?
Sunday evenings hit different when you're alone. Again.
Look, You're Not Broken & You're Not Being "Too Picky"
And you're definitely not asking for too much.
The problem isn't you.
It's that you've been following dating advice designed for a world that doesn't exist anymore.
You know the advice I'm talking about. "Just be yourself!" (Thanks, already tried that.) "Give everyone a chance!" (Cool, so I should waste three months on a guy who's emotionally unavailable? Hard pass.) "Put yourself out there!" (I've put myself out there so much I'm basically a wandering billboard at this point.)
Meanwhile, you're three months into texting someone who still hasn't made a move. Or you're recovering from yet another disappointing dinner date with a guy who spent 90 minutes explaining cryptocurrency while you contemplated faking a family emergency.
Remember that last "just go with the flow" disaster?
Or that three-hour dinner date where you knew in ten minutes he wasn't it, but you stayed anyway because you'd already spent 90 minutes getting ready, you’d forked out for the Uber to get there and you felt bad about ‘wasting his time’.
Yeah. We need to talk about that.
Here's the thing: Traditional dating advice was written for a world where people met through friends, community, and actual human connection. Where "give him a chance" made sense because someone you trust had vetted him first.
But now?
You're meeting complete strangers. Whose entire profile could be fiction. (Remember Brad the ‘foodie’ who thinks the McDonald's counts as fine dining)
And you're supposed to invest hours—sometimes months—figuring out if they're even serious about a relationship.
No wonder you're exhausted.
Here's what nobody tells you: Modern dating isn't a you problem. It's a system problem.
And you can't win a rigged game by playing harder. You have to change the rules.
What Finally Clicked...
The Shift That Ended My Dating Nightmare
(In Less Than 6 Months)
Six months before I met my husband, I was you.
Exhausted. Cynical. Spending every Sunday evening alone wondering what was wrong with me. In fact, there was nothing wrong. But I didn't realise that yet.
I'd tried everything. Different apps. Different profile pictures. Different conversation approaches. I even tried that "strategic waiting" advice where you don't text back for three hours to seem busy. (All that accomplished was making me feel like a game-playing weirdo.)
Nothing worked.
And then I had a thought. A dangerous thought.
What if I stopped hoping men would be different and started screening them like I screen job candidates?
I know, I know. Sounds cold. Clinical. Like I was treating dating as a transaction.
But here's the thing: You already interview people. Every single day.
When you hire someone. When you choose a doctor. Hell, when you pick a hairdresser, you probably vet them harder than you've been vetting the men you're considering spending your life with.
So I started treating first dates differently.
Not as "dates" where I had to perform and be charming and hope he liked me.
As screening conversations where I evaluated whether he deserved access to more of my time.
The shift was immediate.
I stopped wasting Saturday nights on men who were never going to be serious. I stopped investing months in guys who were "figuring things out." I stopped making excuses for behaviour that, deep down, I knew was unacceptable.
And within six months, I met my husband. (Who, for the record, is not perfect. But he is perfect for me. Which is actually what matters.)
There Is A Better Way
The Old Way
Manifest and Pray
Swipe. Regret. Repeat.
Another Walking Ick
Welcome Back, Hinge Hell
Delusion Meets Reality
Burnout, But Make It Romantic
The New Way
Standards? Sky High
Text. Test. Upgrade.
Dates Worth Lip Gloss
No Games, Just Power
Energy Protected at All Costs
Brains, Beauty, Bullsh*t Detector On
You're One Strategy Away From Getting Your Saturday Nights Back
Here's what I figured out (and what I'm going to show you inside this book):
There's a way to know with near certainty whether a man is worth pursuing before you've invested a single Saturday evening.
A screening strategy so efficient that most women cut their dating app time by 75% while getting better results.
It's not magic. It's not manipulation. And it's definitely not "lowering your standards."
It's being smarter about who gets your time in the first place.
This isn't a manifesto on self-love. (You're a grown woman. You already know you should love yourself.)
This isn't a spiritual journey. (Save that for your yoga class.)
This is strategy. Practical, no-BS, "here's exactly what to do" strategy.
Think of it as the instruction manual your mother never gave you for navigating modern dating without losing your mind.
The women who use this describe it the same way
"Why didn't I do this years ago?" - Annalise, 45
"I feel like I have my power back." - Joanne, 58
"I went from exhausted and hopeless to confident and selective in three weeks." - Heidi, 37
"Dating doesn't feel like a second job anymore." - Maggie, 61
"I stopped feeling crazy about dating and started feeling strategic." - Fi, 46
"Finally—a strategy that doesn't make me feel desperate." - Anya, 50
A Sneak Peak Inside...
43 "Copy & Paste" Messages
For every awkward conversation you're dreading, from moving things forward to gracefully bailing, because your brain is tired and you shouldn't have to reinvent the wheel for basic communication.
How to stand your ground when he tries to negotiate your "no" without guilt or backing down
How to bring up exclusivity when things are going well without sounding desperate or making him run for the hills
How to handle sex talks that crash-land in your DMs before he even knows your last name
The Sassy First Date Questions
That sort the grown men from the guys who think therapy is "a bit much". Strategic questions that reveal character, emotional availability, and relationship readiness in under 15 minutes.
Spot commitment-phobes and "figuring it out" guys before they waste your Saturday nights with maybes
Discover if he's actually looking for what you want or is just saying yes until he finds a better option
Assess whether he takes accountability for his past or blames everything on his "crazy" ex-girlfriend
73 Red Flags to Watch For
Discover how to spot the narcissists, the "technically married" guys, and the emotional vampires immediately—so you never waste another killer outfit on a dud.
Spot "technically still married" and "not over my ex" guys before you invest emotional energy
Identify energy vampires who drain you dry, before you're three dates deep wondering why you're exhausted
Recognize love-bombers and players before they waste months of your time with intensity that disappears overnight
The Profile Glow-Up Formula
That makes quality men message you first with actual conversation starters while "hey beautiful" guys and commitment-phobes swipe left before wasting your time—filtering happens before you even match.
Write profiles that make mediocre men swipe left themselves instead of matching and disappointing you later
Get real messages from actual grown men without repeating your life story to every guy with a beard and Wi-Fi
Get off the maybe train and start meeting men who actually want what you want, no translator needed
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137 Copy & Paste Scripts for Awkward Moments, Bad Banter & Too Much Too Soon
For when the convo gets weird, the vibes shift, or you suddenly need to set a boundary without starting a full-blown breakup text.
These 137 advanced, plug-and-play scripts help you navigate flirty chaos, polite exits, awkward replies, and emotional landmines, with grace, wit, and zero overthinking.
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I’m not here to take your money if this doesn’t genuinely help you. Read the thing, use the scripts, try the system like you mean it. If you don’t feel more confident, clear-headed, and in control of your dating life? I’ll refund every cent, no awkward emails, no hoops, no “prove you tried” drama. Just a clean, respectful exit. Because you deserve results, not regret.
Time to Get Honest With Yourself...
Right Now You Have Two Choices
CHOICE 1: Keep doing what you've been doing
Keep swiping. Keep hoping the next match will be different.
Keep investing Saturday nights in men who "aren't sure what they're looking for."
Keep explaining to your friends why you're still single. Keep feeling exhausted, invisible, wondering if you're asking for too much.
In six months, you'll be in the exact same place you are right now.
Maybe more jaded. Definitely more tired.
CHOICE 2: Try something different
Stop wasting time on men who were never going to be serious.
Decide quicker. Protect your Saturday nights.
In six months, you could be off the apps. You could be in a relationship with someone who actually gets you.
You could be the friend everyone asks for dating advice, not the friend everyone pities.
Or at the very least, you'll have your Saturday nights back.
(Which, honestly, is a win either way.)
If You’re Waiting for a “Perfect Moment”...
This Is It
P.S. Still on the fence? Every week you wait is another week of bad dates, exhausting swiping, and wasted Saturday nights. The system is here. The guarantee is risk-free. The only question is whether you're ready to stop being everyone's "maybe" person and start being someone's "hell yes."
P.P.S. Most women wish they'd found this years ago. "I can't believe I wasted three years doing it the wrong way" is something we hear constantly. Don't be the woman who looks back in three years wishing you'd started today.
P.P.P.S. Remember the 30-day guarantee. Try it. If you don't get better dates, you get your money back. You literally have nothing to lose except more mediocre men and wasted Saturday nights. (And honestly, you should probably lose those anyway.)
I Know What You're Thinking...
Frequently Asked Questions
$47 feels expensive for a book
Let's do the math: You're probably spending $20-30 per month on dating apps. You've likely spent $50+ on a single disappointing dinner date. You might've even considered hiring a dating coach for $200+ per session. For $47, you're getting a complete system that could save you dozens of hours and potentially years of bad dates. Most women say the book paid for itself after avoiding just one terrible three-hour dinner.
I'm 60+ Will this work for me?
Honey, if anything, you need this MORE than the 35-year-olds. You have less time to waste on men who are "figuring things out." The strategies in this book work at 35, 45, 55, 65, and beyond because human behaviour doesn't change with age. We have clients in their 60s and 70s using this exact system and getting results. Learning to spot the wrong men faster? Even more valuable when you're not willing to waste entire Saturday nights.
I'm not tech-savvy. Can I actually do this?
If you can send a text message, you can do this. There's no complicated technology. No confusing apps. Just common-sense screening that most women immediately kick themselves for not doing sooner. We include step-by-step instructions and exact scripts. You'll be fine.
I haven't dated in 20 years. I'm divorced and terrified
Perfect. You're exactly who this book is for. Dating has changed dramatically, and the advice you remember from your 20s doesn't work anymore. This book shows you how modern dating actually works, and how to navigate it without losing your mind or your dignity. Many of our most successful clients are divorced women who thought dating would be impossible. Turns out, they just needed a better strategy.
I've read dating books before. How is this different?
Most dating books are either too woo-woo ("manifest your soulmate with crystals!") or too game-playing ("make him chase you by not texting back!"). This is neither. It's practical strategy based on efficiency and self-respect. No manipulation. No pretending to be someone you're not. Just smart screening and clear communication. Think of it as the difference between generic advice and specific instructions.
I'm too busy for another 'program
That's exactly why you need this. You're too busy to waste 12+ hours a week swiping. Too busy for three-hour dinner dates with men who are "technically still married." This system saves you time. Most women spend LESS time dating after reading this, and get better results. Think of it as efficiency, not addition.
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